"Bitch, I do what I want"
Maybe you shouldn't say this other people but I really want you to start thinking this instead of beating yourself up for not living up to everyone else's expectations.
I want you to stop being your own biggest critic and letting other people's opinions determine how you live your life and feel about yourself.
We've spent a lifetime being told who we need to be to succeed.
We spent years trying to fit in, be like the other girls so we'll feel accepted, be pretty and thin and desirable enough to get the guy, get the job, or be one of the cool moms on the playground.
We did it as girls, we did it as teens, we do it as mothers and grown as women and business owners.
We've spent our entire lives letting the bitch in our head convince us we aren't good enough and if we just work hard to be better THEN we'll have everything we want.
It's time to stop letting everyone else's opinions and those old bullshit beliefs run the show.
it's time to write your own rules
BUT IT STARTS WITH SELF LOVE
Most of us didn’t grow up even seeing women who loved themselves, let alone been taught HOW to love ourselves. Your inner critic has likely run the show for as long as long as you can remember. In fact, you might not even realize that pesky voice telling you you aren’t enough, you can’t do it, or that you’ll never achieve your goals, is not actually you.
She’s your inner bitch and it’s time to call her out for what she really is...a liar.
It’s time to separate the truth of who YOU are from the negative voice in your head. It’s time to give yourself you so freely give your people. Unconditional love, acceptance, and an unwavering belief in your own potential
I BELIEVE IN EMPOWERED, CONFIDENT, HAPPY, PRESENT, WHOLE MOTHERS WHO LEAD BY EXAMPLE
Mothers who show their daughters and sons HOW to love themselves, chase their dreams, and accept nothing less than all they deserve.
We can’t teach what we don’t know.
We can’t do better for our children if we continue to perpetuate the cycle of self doubt, self sabotage, and self abandonment.
Learn to love yourself fully, for them.
Figure out exactly who you are so you can show your kids how to do the same.
Show your daughters what a happy, confident, whole woman looks like.
Stop giving yourself away, running on fumes, denying your desires and believing the utter bullshit that you're only a good mom when you come last, or that you haven’t done enough to earn what your soul craves.
Make learning to love yourself fully your top priority, so you can show your sons and daughters how it's done.
YOU CAN'T GIVE IT UNTIL YOU LIVE IT MOMMA.
If you have the courage to put yourself first and write your own rules NOW (not after the new year, not when the kids go back to school, not when there is more time, or more money, NOW!), everything in your life will begin to change, fast.
A woman who is in love with herself does not have the time to be bothered giving a shit about what anyone else thinks.
A woman who values her voice and her desires isn't afraid to speak up and go for what she wants.
A woman who loves herself is totally free...free from doubt, free from comparison, free from the fears that she is not enough.
A full, expansive, exciting, limitless life is waiting for the woman who believes she is not only worthy of it, but fully capable of making it happen.
A woman who knows her worth in this world is fucking unstoppable.
It’s time to go back to basics.
Class is in session.
Enrollment is now open for Self Love School
IF YOU WANT TO:
Be done with self doubt and feeling not enough
Stop searching outside for validation, attention, and approval from others
Feel so good about who you are that you never feel the need to compare yourself to another woman ever again
Learn the difference between your intuition and inner critic so you can distinguish the truth of who you really are from all the lies
Become a magnet for your desires
Feel sexy and strong in your body
Have more patience and peace in motherhood or
Just feel really good about yourself, every damn day...
21 INDIVIDUAL SELF LOVE LESSONS over day 21 days. Each lesson will include a short, audio training, an inspirational quote, daily affirmation, specific journal prompt and simple homework assignment you can easily complete within your busy day.
You'll also get the MOM FIRST BONUS 10 VIDEO BUNDLE including:
VIDEO 1: See Yourself With New Eyes with Boudoir Photographer Cori Strong
VIDEO 2: Harness Your Power with Manifestation Coach Lyndsey Paradis
VIDEO 3: Mom Comes First: Overflow Into Your Family
VIDEO 4: The Power of Pleasure with Body Empowerment Coach Nicole Syverson
VIDEO 5: How to Say No, Guilt Free
VIDEO 6: How to Hire Help
VIDEO 7: Self Love to Success
VIDEO 8: Elevate Your Mindset, Elevate Your Life with Mindset and Energy Coach Holly A. Abell
VIDEO 9: Owning Your Sex Life in Every Season with April Davis from The Vagina Blog
Each video is between 30 and 45 minutes in length, giving you over 6 hours of insights, new ideas, tools, and inspiration from a variety of women on a mission to help you realize your full potential.