"Bitch, I do what I want"

Maybe you shouldn't say this other people but I really want you to start thinking this instead of beating yourself up for not living up to everyone else's expectations.

I want you to stop being your own biggest critic and letting other people's opinions determine how you live your life and feel about yourself.

We've spent a lifetime being told who we need to be to succeed.

We spent years trying to fit in, be like the other girls so we'll feel accepted, be pretty and thin and desirable enough to get the guy, get the job, or be one of the cool moms on the playground.

We did it as girls, we did it as teens, we do it as mothers and grown as women and business owners.

We've spent our entire lives letting the bitch in our head convince us we aren't good enough and if we just work hard to be better THEN we'll have everything we want.

It's time to stop letting everyone else's opinions and those old bullshit beliefs run the show.  

it's time to write your own rules

Most of us didn’t grow up even seeing women who loved themselves, let alone been taught HOW to love ourselves. Your inner critic has likely run the show for as long as long as you can remember.  In fact, you might not even realize that pesky voice telling you you aren’t enough, you can’t do it, or that you’ll never achieve your goals, is not actually you.

She’s your inner bitch and it’s time to call her out for what she really is...a liar.

It’s time to separate the truth of who YOU are from the negative voice in your head. It’s time to give yourself you so freely give your people. Unconditional love, acceptance, and an unwavering belief in your own potential

Mothers who show their daughters and sons HOW to love themselves, chase their dreams, and accept nothing less than all they deserve.

We can’t teach what we don’t know.

We can’t do better for our children if we continue to perpetuate the cycle of self doubt, self sabotage, and self abandonment.

Learn to love yourself fully, for them.

Figure out exactly who you are so you can show your kids how to do the same.

Show your daughters what a happy, confident, whole woman looks like.

Stop giving yourself away, running on fumes, denying your desires and believing the utter bullshit that you're only a good mom when you come last, or that you haven’t done enough to earn what your soul craves.

Make learning to love yourself fully your top priority, so you can show your sons and daughters how it's done.

IF YOU WANT TO:

Be done with self doubt and feeling not enough

Stop searching outside for validation, attention, and approval from others

Feel so good about who you are that you never feel the need to compare yourself to another woman ever again

Learn the difference between your intuition and inner critic so you can distinguish the truth of who you really are from all the lies

Become a magnet for your desires

Feel sexy and strong in your body

Have more patience and peace in motherhood or

Just feel really good about yourself, every damn day...